As always my goal is to provide you with dating tools that you can immediately use to improve your love life.
It is very important to look at some of the things that may getting in the way of having the love you want.
I call these things fairy tales.
These fairy tales that single people tell themselves sabotage their chances of enjoying the dating process and finding a quality person
These are stories that people tell each other and tell themselves
That affect their success in dating…
Definition of a Fairytale: a fabricated story, especially one intended to deceive.
These are stories that we make up…or stories that we have decided to believe…but these stories deceive us from reality….
And they sabotage our love lives.
Fairytale #1: When I least expect it love will just happen.
You also hear people saying this all of the time. “Love will just find me”
But here’s what this fairy tale does, it leads you to think that love is a magical thing that will just happen when you least expect it.
But how is love going to happen for you if you spend your day at work, go straight home, you don’t go anywhere, you don’t meet new single people.
How is love going to happen if you are not creating opportunities to have it happen?
You don’t want to let this fairy tale ruin your chances to find love.
Truth #1: You need to take action. You need to put yourself out there and stop believing that love will just find you.
Fairytale #2: I’m too busy to date
You also hear people saying this all of the time.
“I’m too busy to find love.”
“I don’t have time to date.”
“I have a very busy schedule.”
You would never say you were too busy to put gas in your tank, or too busy to wash your clothes, or too busy to call your dad for his birthday, or too busy to go to your sister’s wedding. These things are a priority in your life so you make time.
It’s not that you are too busy. When people say this to me I know instantaneously that this is an excuse.
What is really the truth here is that you are not making you love life a priority. Your love life has been placed on the back burner.
Now the question that is begged to be asked is, “Why is your love life not a priority?”
You don’t want to let this fairy tale sabotage your love life.
Truth #2: It’s time to make time for your love life. If you desire someone to go to the movies with, to go out to dinner with, to go out on a couple dates with, to travel with, to snuggle with. If that’s what you want, it’s time to make time.
Look at your calendar and block off a few hours a week to devote to this very important part of your life.
Ok great! So those are the two ways to stop sabotaging your love life for good.
- You need to take action and put yourself out there
- Make time for your love life…
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