“I worked with Crista closely for over a year during a period of heavy transition in my life. She helped me realize that, in order to get what I want, I have to understand who I am. With her help, I was able to see myself clearly and honestly, and from that place, I started to make progress.
I just celebrated my one year anniversary with the love of my life. Crista helped me become the person I needed to be to make that happen.”
“You know what happened after I worked with Crista? I have found new love that feels better than any love I have ever had!”
“Crista helped me work through some important issues after my divorce. Crista saved me so much time that I would have wasted if I did not do that important introspective work. After going through Crista’s program, I found a great guy. His son and my daughter get along and we are becoming a nice little family. Thank you, Crista!”
“So, I have an interesting situation. My new outlook and Crista’s help has me dealing with TOO many good men!! I literally keep getting messages from men who seem pretty great and I also am now getting picked up by men in real life. LOL, not a bad problem to have, but I can’t remember who is who.”
“Your coaching and “Compass” have helped me both heal shame, overcome self-limiting beliefs, and believe in and manifest my incredible partner. It took a lot of work, but it was worth the work- which is mostly mindset!”
“I appreciate the clarity Crista helped my attain by figuring out what I want in a relationship and the encouragement not to settle or waste my time on anything less. It gave me hope and also helped me realize the importance of making a go of things with a good person – even if there weren’t fireworks right away. In the long run, if the characteristics I valued most were there, I’d be a lot happier in the long run. And she was always very upbeat as well as validating.”
“We sometimes don’t fully understand how much relationships affect us. Crista’s approach is both pleasantly unexpected & thorough. I felt increasingly renewed after each session, but I can truly say I felt cleansed and empowered after working with Crista. I even recommended her course to one of my ex’s!”
“Crista is an incredible healer. I don’t know quite how much energy she’s spent over her lifetime cultivating this part of herself, but it is truly amazing. She has a gift. A deep, deep, deep gift. The space that she creates for one to process themselves and to understand themselves is unparalleled.”
“I had poor belief systems around love and relationships; my heart was broken upon broken and I processed it to mean I’m not good enough; I didn’t think I was capable of love; I didn’t think I deserved love; i didn’t believe men loved or wanted to love. I wanted it bad but I had no idea that the behaviors I was doing was in fact getting in the way. I didn’t know how to fix my dissatisfied feeling about my dating life.
After working with Crista I am ready for love! I believe I am worthy! Becoming open to love and men and knowing what I wanted in a man was the best thing I got.”
“My favorite part of the process was that Crista did an excellent job identifying the sources of problems in my love life. Before this process, I didn’t have a strong understanding of my actions. I feel much more aware now of my positive and negative tendencies and am better equipped to handle them. She will give you the tools you need to be a happy, healthy, and sexy person in your life.”
“I’d say that every person should work with Crista. We’re the only ones who can help ourselves and it is until we can search within ourselves to reconstruct our inner soul, can we truly be the best version of ourselves, in turn, preparing us for love.”
“When I came to Crista I was dating emotionally unavailable people. I loved working with Crista who is just pure love and joy. During her “Yes to Love” program I re-established my “must have” list for a partner.
My new girlfriend is sweet and wonderful and treats me like I am a queen. She makes me breakfast in bed, or brings it into the home office when I am working. She misses me when I am gone and is offering to help me with my mom’s doctor appointments. She loves my family and wants to join the family. So far, things are fantastic!”
“It’s hard and painful to work through issues around love! It feels lonely and painful because a lot of times friends we hang out with aren’t single or don’t understand our specific trials and tribulations around love. Crista guides you and provides the rails so you don’t drive off track!”
“I would definitely recommend working with Crista! If anyone is considering her program, I’d say don’t hesitate. Just jump in with an open mind and heart, let yourself be challenged and changed, and prepare to be amazed at what will open up for you.”
“The program “Yes to Love” is pretty tightly focused and well presented. It’s a good start for understanding yourself and what you want. I would recommend it, especially if you are finding dating super stressful or frustrating. It’s great for getting perspective.”
“I adore you Crista. You spoke such wise and uncomfortable truths to me when I was in a dark place wrestling my single motherhood and the terrifying prospect of dating again after a long, celibate sabbatical!
I heard you in my head so often: “Create your compass. Send out signals to your friends. Be open. Get out there – bring a book or magazine to a bar to meet men!” That one was so scary… but I did that faithfully every other weekend for SIX months – gaining confidence and genuine appreciation for myself. I dated myself first. And I became super-selective; I began to value myself so much that I honestly wondered if I’d ever find anybody worthy of me and my son’s space.
You said, “Single fathers will be great matches”, even when I fought back, saying I didn’t want to “share” somebody with his children. And I found, in the end, that a single dad had a MORE expansive heart and ability to love me and respect my space. You said, “Find somebody who LOVES his life” in order to foster abundance, non-neediness, and non-clinginess.
Now I have manifested an incredible partner! THANK YOU CRISTA!”
“Because of Crista I am able to sort out the right man for me; I am able to understand that if the man I like doesn’t like me back it’s not personal. I’m able to open my heart to the possibility that love will come to me for certain and will come to me soon. I’m able to understand that if I’m feeling negative about the process of dating and finding a mate, it could be due to what negative stories I’m telling myself about the process.”
“Crista, Even without meeting you face to face, I find you to be one of the most generous and genuine souls I have ever met. Your willingness to work with me despite my less-than-ideal circumstances is so incredibly humbling, and I am grateful beyond words for what you do. You’re helping me and others connect with the most powerful thing in the world alongside others – what could be more amazing? <3”
After working with Crista I became more patient with the process of dating. Before working with her I felt frustration and helpless about my dating life. Now I understand the importance of prioritizing my love life and have learned not to attach to much to any idea or interpretation of a date.
Before Crista: A flat-out lack of dates…and fear of trying for them again because of past bad experiences.
After Crista: I found the confidence in myself that I needed to take charge of what I really want in my love life.
“Crista has a way of helping me to see my truth and to see the dynamics at play so that I can understand what is driving the show when it’s not my true self. Her work is deep. I wanted to take the time to acknowledge her and share how VALUABLE she is. You can’t put a price on the gifts that Crista shares.”
“After working with Crista, I told my best friend that all of the love that she’s ever dreamed of is absolutely possible and available. We are in control of our own lives. When we stand up for ourselves and take responsibility for our healing and for ourselves – miracles transpire.”
When dating men on the internet or in person, while trying to find a quality man, there are disappointments all along the way. These disappointments lead to a feeling of futility and unhappiness. Dating again and again from the place of unhappiness and frustration leads to more frustration and disappointment. It’s a vicious cycle, and one that’s hard to break without Crista!!